No more talking. No more protesting or acting shy. No more of this demure, classy woman. That’s for outside. That’s not for in here. In here, you’re a whore. You’re a cunt. A desperate little slut. A wanton fucktoy. All of those for me. No one else. No one else gets this side of you. No one else gets to know what a dirty girl you are. Because that’s for me. Me alone. My perfect set of holes.
And just look at you. So fucking wet. So fucking tight and needy when I fuck you like this. Can’t get enough of it can you. Look at that body of yours responding to what I do to you. Your pussy is clenching around my cock again. Another fucking orgasm for you. Such a hot fucking slut for me.
To the person who sent my reblog of this to me along with a message about how you know all women just want to be treated like the dirty, stupid whores we really are:
I thought about just deleting your message. I didn’t want to spend any time on it. I am under no illusions about my ability to actually change your worldview. But I couldn’t let it go. Not because you’re under my skin, but because it’s possible, likely even, there are women out there who have been told some version of this enough times that they believe it. And I can’t let that stand.
It’s true there are many women who enjoy rough, kinky sex. Not all of them are submissive. Some of them (gasp) are female Dominants. Some like to be dominated in the bedroom but couldn’t imagine taking the dynamic outside of that. There are also lots of women who are truly not into this kind of kink. They would get no pleasure from being spanked or degraded or gagged. Not a single one of these women is a stupid whore.
You know what they do have in common? They deserve and need to be treated with respect. The women who like to submit, who do get wet and needy the dirtier you talk, the rougher you are? They need to know they can trust you. Not only with their bodies, but with their emotions and their self-esteem. If you truly believe women are stupid whores, made for nothing than servicing a man, then you’ve missed the whole point of a d/s dynamic and are actually just trying to impose your small-minded, misogynistic views on other people.
And here’s the thing: unlike you, I know the person who wrote this caption you liked so much. I don’t want to put words in his mouth but I’m hoping @art-of-domination might see this and weigh in.
I know that he treats women with respect and care, and comports himself in ways that make them WANT to submit to him. I know he thinks of submission as something a Dominant earns. So while I’m sure you will disregard my opinions on the subject (I’m just a stupid whore after all), maybe give that some thought.
So I read @exoticeva‘s post and reading that someone would take my blog post and send it to her with the message that they sent makes me regret starting a blog to begin with. Because it still boggles my mind that people are as stupid as that.
Why is it so hard to understand that a woman can be smart, intelligent and in control of her decisions in order to also enjoy hot, dirty sex and be submissive. The two are not mutually exclusive.
Now, let’s take a look at the caption above that I wrote. I want people to understand the subtleties there that I describe because I try and make this clear as much as possible.
“All of those for me. No one else. No one else gets this side of you. No one else gets to know what a dirty girl you are. Because that’s for me. Me alone.”
Read that above. Note the part that it’s all for him. That she has chosen him to be her Dom. Lest there be any confusion, he didn’t walk up to her and tell her she was going to be his fucktoy. No. No to any dumb fuck who thinks that’s how this goes. She consented to him every step of the way. She met him. Vetted him. Got to know him. Gradually trusted him. Learned all about him. Had a deep meaningful connection with him. Talked about their interests and likes. Developed limits and established boundaries. Created safe words and parameters. Had deep conversations. All of that happened before this. Ok? All of it.
“And just look at you. So fucking wet. So fucking tight and needy when I fuck you like this. Can’t get enough of it can you. Look at that body of yours responding to what I do to you. Your pussy is clenching around my cock again. Another fucking orgasm for you. Such a hot fucking slut for me.”
Now, read this part. See, she likes it? She doesn’t like it because she’s waiting for some random guy to fuck her this way. Nuh uh. She likes it and she’s wet and desirous of him because he turns her the fuck on. Because he understands her wants and needs and they have discussed this multiple times over a decent span of time and they are in agreement of what is permitted and what is not. What some of you don’t understand is that despite the image here, SHE is in control. Not him. Because, at any time, in any moment, whenever the fuck she decides, for whatever fucking reason she wants to, she can stop this. Any time. For any reason. No means no. She decides. Always.
And for any dipshit that assumes that any woman will do this, that you can walk up to anyone and get this from them, that this is what women are for, well, you are going to find yourself in jail very quickly if you ever try and act this shit out in real life. Learn how to be a real fucking man and control your own shit before you even think about controlling someone else.
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