
“Tie me up and use me.”
I have heard this literally hundreds of times when asking a submissive what they want from their Dominant partner.
I want to compare the fantasy to the reality for a moment.
What goes through your head when you imagine this? Are you bound painfully, like the girl above? Or are you bound in a comfortable position?
Are you left there when your partner is finished, so that they may return at their leisure when they want to use you again? Are you left, hole gaping, cum running down your legs, straining against the chains, desperate for more? But forced to wait?
Or it this a one time thing? Do you want to be released when they finish, unchained so that you can turn and clean them with your tongue? Or carried to the shower to be washed off before being put to bed?
The point is, to tell someone that you want to be tied up and used, no matter how tight you are thinking, that line leaves a lot of lose ends.
Think your fantasies through, communicate them in detail, and help your partner give you a night that you will never forget.