I understand for a lot of Subs, (affectionate) after care may not be as important. But as a little, I find it extremely important- perhaps more important than the actual scene. What is your personal outlook on after care?

instructor144:

love-theromanticsadist:

sadisticgames:

I believe in taking care of your toys. 

Check the oil in your car. 

Oil your leather. 

Scan your PC. 

Most people would agree that this is common sense. 

Why then is it so confusing to some that your partner should be taken care of?

They are, or damn well better be, more important than any of that other stuff. 

So if they require you to sit with them in bed after a scene and cuddle, 

you fucking do it. 

If they want you to take a shower with them, wash their hair, relax them, 

you fucking do it. 

If they want pancakes and chocolate while you tell them how proud you are, 

you fucking do it. 

Because if you don’t, someone better than you will. 

Mic drop. After care is not optional.

Boom. Period. Full stop. Carry on with your day.