One of the ways to tell the difference between a Dom who knows what they’re doing and some random fuckboy is the Dom will ALWAYS start off with simple, non sexual things. “Let me know when you get to work,” “let me know what you had for lunch,” “let me see you in your work outfit before you head out,” etc. Those seemingly innocuous little things are not little.
@instructor144 nailing it again.
Back when I first met my Master it was all very simple things.
None of it sexual in any way shape or form.
I remember one of the first requests ‘please let me know what you have planned for the rest of your day’
It made me feel like he was genuinely interested in me and wanted to know what I was going to be doing. For a sub like me this was like hitting jackpot. I knew he was going to be perfect. I knew he was one of the good ones.
Even to this day the little things still happen … I think they make me feel owned the most. Pictures of my outfit, letting him know I’ve arrived at my destination, asking to nap if I’m tired.
The little things are so important. Get them right and your subby will dote on you like you wouldn’t believe … trust me 🙂
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Does it start with easy task at first (kneel, call me Sir, do this or that) or like a normal thing? Maybe like you do it? I don’t know. Can you please Sir give me some tips? If you want and have time.
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