If a guy is having sex with his sub and he doesn’t give premission to cum. How will he know she cums when most of the guys don’t know if their gf is faking it? 🤔

cherished-property:

instructor144:

You can’t.

D/s requires a great deal of trust and honesty. Painful honesty. I, for one, find it very difficult not to orgasm during sex. If not impossible. But my orgasms are quiet. The better they are, the quieter I get. And so often partners don’t know that I’ve had one. But across several D/s relationships, I have never ever lied about having an orgasm during sex. If I haven’t been given permission, I am more likely to be warning VERY LOUDLY that I am going to lose control. And I’ve never had a Dom push me to fail when I am so clearly trying to obey. Doing so would be incredibly cruel in my book.

When you build a relationship on a foundation of trust and complete honesty, you don’t violate that for fun. Seriously.