Ask for my permission.
Ask for my opinion.
Ask me to choose.
Say, “Is that okay, Daddy?”
I don’t want your will and your opinion to evaporate; I enjoy your idiosyncrasies and preferences, and of course, I require your consent.
But leave an opening for my directions. Consider the idea that what I choose for you will be better than what you’d choose for yourself.
The sexiest, most emotionally-satisfying part of your submission is the space you leave for me to make the final call.
About everything.