Attention tumblrdoms, pseudo-doms, young domly men, and “new” submissives
What you see here is an image. Pick one. Your favorite one.
What you see is exciting and beautiful. Hell, it turns me on….. Makes me, as I like to put it “squirmy” 🔥🔥💦💦
What you don’t see is:
1) the time getting to know each other before they even kissed
2) the trips to the park, the pillow fights, the discussions of life goals and dreams
3) the initial discussions, covering basics, and delving into what she was comfortable doing WITH HIM.
4) the evenings spent discussing personal family things. Heart breaks. Disappointments. The tears and support
5) the times she was unable to step forward because of her lack in confidence in herself and HE gently reminded her and encouraged her
6) his bad days- when she loved and supported and held his sobbing form
7) the disagreements
8) the experimentation, the changing of minds (on 2nd thought- no- I do not like blood play)
9) the times she cried because she thought she wasn’t good enough for him
10) the deeper negotiations
11) the time he brought her to tears then spent 3 days not leaving her side because she needed him
These scenes- do not happen without extensive discussion, play, experimentation, and constant consent. CONSTANT consent. Each action requires agreement.
Tumblr IS NOT reality. Treat people with respect. Be open and careful and thoughtful. Yes- it is rewarding. No- it is NOT easy
Mischief's Muse 