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crimson-castle:

Sisters of the Kneel Circle

I am profoundly interested in the psychology, history, and in the overall best practices of BDSM. There is much I have learned over the years while having the distinct honor of being collared to articulate, wise and powerfully experienced men. One online experience that lasted years and my current “real world” Master who will last years more. A man I have incredible respect and love for. I’ve known mentors, lovers and friends as well that are the best of the best when it come to the D/s dynamic.

Yes, I ask them advice but when it comes to truly learning and evolving, submissives need to be helping submissives a hell of lot more than they do. Me personally? I am perplexed by the amount of subs that pander to the egos of “Tumblr Doms” by validating their mostly narcissistic, predatory replies. Now, before the testosterone goes amuck let me stress, I’m not referring to the legitimate men with best of intentions. I’m talking about the ones that offer advice to inflate their own ego yet clearly don’t have a fucking clue. A whip and a fancy name does NOT a Dom make.

I do not seek my answers via Tumblr Doms regarding the needs, insecurities or emotions of female submissives. Even the best of them. Why? Well it’s pretty simple. They aren’t psychologists and they don’t own a pussy. And besides to understand the true mind of a female submissive, I believe one has to be one. It’s like going to a man and asking them to explain what a woman feels physically and mentally while she’s losing her virginity or menstruating. They can certainly give you pointers based on tried and true practices but they can in no way offer you the perspective of a person that actually owns a vagina.

I believe it is our responsibility to give back to the lifestyle that has offered us so much beauty and reward by offering to uplift, inspire and encourage one another. We are not in competition with one another. We should love ourselves enough to know, we are perfect as we are and equal to all other women. When we accept the fact that our uniqueness is our own super power, we can raise up other submissives to know this as well.

So I offer my sisters of the kneel, this challenge – if you are a submissive that is willing to offer your words of encouragement and advice to others without the cattiness, pettiness and insecurity so many women are subjected to….please reblog this. Let’s create a solid sisterhood of the kneel where cattiness, pettiness and competitiveness has no place.

A true circle – a sisterhood of the kneel

Great initiative @crimson-castle Bravo Girl!!!

Love this!! 💞💞